Marriage : CHECK ✔

So, on the last April Mop, I finally getting married with my not so long called boyfriend, but long called friend-nemy.

Why 1st April? Well, first of all we didn't do any Javanese Traditional calculation to know when's the "good day"for us to get married. It's Sunday and right after long weekend. And also because Sean once said he wanted it before Ramadhan. And as for me, I found life is kinda funny. Like I ever said that I never thought before would getting married this fast, especially with him.

We didnt do any pre-wedding photos sessions, we're mostly used the photos from our previous trips. Since he also the type of man who hardly can have natural expressions so better not than I get upset on that.

So back to the marriage plan, so here's the list of what you need to check before planning for marriage:

 ✔ Intention.

You cant get married without have any intention to do it. Especially to overcome problems that will follow.

✔ The Partner
Make sure you have the partner as the Groom/Bride. 

Well, you cant do the marriage alone right?lol

✔ Budget.

You should set the Max of the budget. It would be over that your plan, I guarantee you that, but will not too far from your max. And the most important thing is, never hope too much that you will get it back. And make sure that for everything you count in the catering, it should be doubled

✔ Some people might said it should be the date, but what I'd say it should be the Venue. 

Finding the available place as the venue is hard, even harder to find the one that fit in your concept (and hardest to fit in budget especially). 

✔ The Date.

After finding the venue, the hardest thing to do is finding the available date. You can find the available venue, but you don't like it. Or you can find the right place, without the right price.

✔ Your Wedding Concept.

This also including your decoration. Indoor, or outdoor?

Will you do Traditional wedding or National, or even International?

Will you do the traditional ritual or just Akad Nikah or the Blessing?

✔ Invitation List

Make sure whether you want to invite your ex(es) or not. lol
✔ Honeymoon plan
Since along the way to the W-Day will be full of fight and turn your love life upside down, planning about your honeymoon will at least distract your stress since you have holiday coming up

Here're some photos of our Big Day.

The last photo was a bonus. Thanks for coming. Lol

For me, the Marriage was not the end but the beginning of another new Journey, somehow, will be harder than before. Especially since I never get easy to agree, especially with him. 

New adjustment in here and there

New life and status

Well, at least I will be free from question: When will you get married?

And welcoming the new question: When you will have a baby?

Whatever,

Human oh human.

And if you asking me, I'd rather have another year of "halal" relationship first.

Or at least that what I thought.

Ja Ne